Children start developing self-confidence from a very young age. But what is self-confidence, exactly? It involves developing an inner security and believing in your abilities, both to succeed and to bounce back from failure.
For some children, developing self-confidence can be a struggle. As an adult, and as a parent, there are ways to guide your child and help them develop this important tool for their future.
Encourage your child to express their tastes, but also to try new things
By simply asking your child what they like, letting them make their own choices, or encouraging them to express their preferences, you will help them become more assertive and confident in front of others. In addition, introducing your child to new activities or experiences, while still respecting their interests and limitations, can help them develop new skills and boost their confidence.
Give them responsibilities
In addition to making them feel involved and useful, giving children responsibilities helps them build confidence. By choosing age-appropriate responsibilities and giving praise, your child will also feel that you believe in them, which is a very important part of the whole process.
Teach your child to see their failures and defeats in a positive light
Failure, while a necessary part of your child’s development, is not always easy to accept. Teaching your child that it’s normal to fail and to make mistakes, and helping them find solutions when they fail, will help improve their self-confidence. It’s important to teach children to recognize their limitations and the skills and abilities they need to work on. As they gain self-confidence, your child will be better equipped to face a wide variety of situations and see obstacles optimistically.
Let your child bond with others
It’s important to let children develop relationships with other people, like their grandparents, cousins, and friends. Children who have a good network around them are more confident, since these relationships help them to assert themselves in a safe, respectful setting.
